Our Society Our Role

Entering into the 21^st century we have achieved almost all those things which a mankind just thinks off. Technology development reaching its heights in the year 2000 called millennium year where the acceleration to the technological development goes in the right direction.

But as technology is improving day by day it is creating spaces between relations and our relations are becoming just social. Socializing on Facebook with our relatives and friends and sharing our views on tweeter is very interesting that people around the world comes to know about our views but on the same time we are getting away from our blood relations. We even don’t know when our father reach home or mother is calling for some urgent piece of work. Our siblings who need us in all activities are going alone and they watched us that we are spending time on sharing our views with those people who just like our views on internet and commenting on it. We even scold them harshly by saying typical words “please don’t disturb me I am busy in my work go find your friends and play with them”. And our siblings hurts on these kind of words and they really mean it in the end the go outside and find new friends so that they can spend spare time with their new friends by playing or chit chatting with them. Elder brother or sister is guidance for their siblings as father have to do a lot of work to support his family and mother taking care of the entire home. It is our ultimate responsibility to have an eye on our siblings    that where are they going to whom they met and what kind of game they usually play outside. If we think, that socializing will improve our lifestyle than the answer is big no again. We must be social in our home than we should go on internet.

There was a time that whenever a festive event was near people go to market and they choose different kind of cards, buntings for their relatives and then they post it to their relatives but now a days it is becoming fashion to say 3-5 words on social media and get rid of your responsibilities. In fact I am in a view that on the festive occasion of Eid people will great and hugs each other on Facebook and tweeter. They will upload pictures and videos of hugging and greetings on social media. Living in Pakistan we have a lot of traditions. We are very rich in our culture and traditions which are just finishing due to these kinds of activities. Now a day’s many villages that don’t have the facilities of internet and WiFi are far better than our cities because they have time to spend with their Elders and children as well. Children play and involve there selves in healthy activities refreshing their minds rather than the child sitting on Facebook which consistently hammering his/her mind by sharing a simple post from different angles.          As I had stated above that socializing is not a bad thing but this thing is spoiling the mind efforts of our genius children and trust I if you sit on computer, laptop, tablet, cellular phone the first thing you open will be Facebook. So we have to cut off the time duration that we use on it. We should rather go to some park or some play area with our siblings so that they may feel good to play with us. They will be very happy when we give attention to them. So spare the time. Reduce your socializing time and be a real social to your family first.